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BDSM What Does It Mean?



Bondage / BDSM is an role-play of erotica, that includes an extensive selection of activities such as bondage and discipline, fantasy play, power play session and more. You must understand that BDSM exploration of fantasies and desires that require consent. The subject of BDSM has a taboo associated with sexuality and erotica. BDSM has a lot to offer and a variety of activities than people are aware of.

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BDSM Defined

People have an idea of what BDSM is and what it may mean, however you maybe amazed to discover that most people really believe that they know. The letters of BDSM have numerous meanings! Here is brief understand of what BDSM really means

Bondage

Bondage: is a practice that involves – restrains, ropes (being tied) gagged, caning, and a range of different practices in a safe consensual environment. It is a sensual erotic play and a discipline involving punishments, training with the Master and the submissive.

Dominance

Dominance: Are the influence and the power of a dominant that has authority over their submissives and others.

Sadism

Sadism: Gaining the pleasure as well as sexual satisfaction by creating and from causing and inflicting pain, suffering, humiliation, torture to the submissive. 
Masochism: Gaining the pleasure as well as sexual satisfaction by creating gratification from suffering pain, torment, embarrassment, and suffering and inflicted by the dominate.

 Activities that are common with BDSM

Though it might appear that all BDSM play scenes engage in outfits, leather and rope, the truth is that people many participate in selective activities that are suited to them and vary significantly. Think of it like this- Imagine that BDSM is a menu and each and every person ordered different items from the menu. As like most people who like most of us, people who participate and engage in BDSM have their preferred desired pleasures! The table below is a brief list of the menu of the BDSM plays list (however certainly not all of the) activities that can be on the BDSM menu. You could have already explored and or experienced some of the plays on the list that you where not aware of it was part of BDSM.

 

BONDAGE

Bondage Training
Punishment Handcuffs
Ropes Sensation play
Collaring- Spanking
Bondage Play Parties
Spanking Gags
Verbal Humiliation Aftercare

DOMINATION

Collaring Chastity belts
Punishment Reward
Breath Control
Humiliation
Puppy/ Play
Servicing
Objectification Aftercare

SADISM

Flogging
Whipping Orgasm
Denial- Slapping
Spanking Play
Tit Torture- Verbal Humiliation
Gags- Electric Shock
Pain-Aftercare

Going Deeper

There are a variety of play sessions – The play session can be very lightly or you can dive deep into full on depth sessions. The list is only a sample of the various activities that can be explored. BDSM has a broad range of subcategories and flow into different types of play. Those who are interested and people who explore BDSM do make the most of variability by mixing and combining activities that provide them the most satisfaction and pleasure. Also people also decide that activities that don’t suit them can choose not to choose those activities. Does not matter what you choose to explore and play out your preferred activities there are always things to suit you and explore your scene and we can create: 


• Consent: Is a very clear understanding of giving the permission for all that are involved in the activity and especially before any play begins. Also both parties can revoke by anyone involved once the activity has started. The assumption is that the dominant can do “whatever they want” to the submissive, however that is not true at all. BDSM and all the activities are discussed before the session. The dominant can only perform activities and play sessions that are granted and agreed on by the parties involved before the sessions and any scenes start. If there are anything that is not approved the dominate will not perform them at any time unless the person wants to explore and experience the activity or given permission first.

• Safe Word: Are very important for any activity play. The submissive can create one or the dominant will have one that we both agree on for that activity. If the submissive thinks that that safe word does not gel we can create a new on at any time during the session and scene. The safe word is for the submissive to signal the dominant to slow down or stop the activity.

• Aftercare: Is also given to people after the session. The special attention and care is called after care to make sure that the submissive is ok after the session and this includes giving water, cuddling, words of affirmation and or cleanup and or other things.

Explore BDSM

This is your opportunity to explore and experience a bondage session. The next step is to contact Master Nickolas to have a friendly chat about your specific session. Communication about activities and consent beforehand will amplify your pleasure. To match your fantasy, more specifically it’s best to communicate your needs, fantasies and so to achieve your desires and to fill in the BDSM Authorization Form so we can get very clear on your need more specifically.

How To Explore And Experience BDSM

Because BDSM requires a high level of communication, skills building, and attunement and it can be very helpful to work with a professional Master to be dominant you and as a submissive feeling safe and getting clear on your desires and how to make sure that you are clear on what you will be experiencing and making sure you are consenting and agreeing to the BDSM session.

Master Nickolas will dominant, you and will start with verbal dominance, physical dominance, and take you on a journey of a scene that we have negotiated and concentrated to. You can find your exact flavour of what you like as a submissive. As a dominant I will use tone, physical sensation play and psychological arousal tools. As a submissive, you will be able to explore and experience your fantasies and willing to play out the variations of your fantasies while respecting your boundaries.

Exploring your submissive side will assist and help you to learn more about what you like and to get more specific of your desires and boundaries around submission and how to communicate them. You may discover during you session that you want to take your session up a level and or you would like to have more BDSM sessions more regularly if that is the case you can look at our payment plans and session packages. Please do not hesitate to ask Master Nickolas.